“The Jam card is very effective and Courts acknowledge it. By way of self help, take your time, listen, let the other side waffle on and huff and puff. You have the right of reply, stay composed and speak calmly effectively with the most relevant points. Rebutt any statements made by the other side, correct facts. Do not hesitate to ask the Judge for time to reply and make yourself understood. Create the safe space you need to do your job. Don’t forget if the order is against you “stay the order pending appeal” if you don’t you might face a bitter battle to get to an appeal.I now include this request in the prayer of the affidavit. If the court does not refuse the motion ( obviously from the otherside) then ask the order be stayed pending appeal . It does not mean you will appeal you are just reserving the right.Every litigant confident or otherwise should carry this card, absolutely, if you don’t have one you can ask for jam in court. The card is better, particularly when you are being rushed or boxed in. The card is your life line.One word of caution, this is a valuable tool for litigants, however use it appropriately or you spoil its use for others. It’s not for flogging useless arguments or shouting down your opponent. Understand its purpose and respect it.”
Majelloa Rippington – Litigant
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